6 How to Train Children in order Confidence - Your child too, they are like clay in your hands. Form them as good as you want and "burn" them in order to become a form that can be useful for you, themselves and others.
I am very fond of a television show from one of the private television station that brings a special talent of children. How very packed, each child confidently and without embarrassment advanced to the stage witnessed by hundreds of spectators to show their talents. There is one girl that caught my attention, aged about 5 years with confidence to answer any questions from the jury. In my heart so think, how can a small child he seemed to have no nerves at all, if I had had the courage of his age is not necessarily so great as him.
I am aware of every child is different, they can not be generalized because they are born with their talent. However, all children can be taught to trust himself not easily embarrassed, if only parents understand how to teach it to them. Inferiority is one of the greatest enemies of man, these feelings can be brought up to a person to grow up so that their children can affect the personal and social life.
Then how to teach a child to have confidence that good? Here are 6 ways that I summarized from various sources how to teach your child in order to have confidence that good, among which are:
1. Do not scare
Sometimes to make your child a deterrent or not you want your child to do something you would not expect, the most efficient way to use is to frighten him. However, did you ever consider the long-term effects? Scare habits in the long term can make a person easy to be pessimistic, these habits can be embedded in the mind of someone so new effects appear when someone will make a decision. We recommend that you tell the real reason why it is forbidden for him to do, that way the child has a good reason not to do so.
2. Do not scold for no apparent reason
Challenge as a parent is hard, sometimes it affects your emotions. I remember as a child one time my parents scold me all out for no apparent reason, as my son was not able to defend themselves and prefer silence in the room. Of course you may be angry, but the anger you must have a reason, so the child will know his mistakes and is not expected to repeat the same mistakes.
3. Do not taunt
Although the purpose jokingly mocked habits can not be justified. A child not yet have a good understanding in communicating with others, when he made a mistake and it is funny you think you should avoid for taunting. In a child's perspective mistakes he had done although it funny is very embarrassing, you should still give him the spirit and teach him to not make the same mistake.
4. Involve them in making decisions
In certain cases involving children to make their own decisions you should try to do. What should she wear to school or gifts farewell show what he should give to his friends. Get children to make their own decisions will train him to be confident that his decision was correct and it should be your continuous support.
5. Do not spoil the child
Well for mothers in particular, I realize that you were conceived for 9 months. No matter how great your affection to your baby spoiling habits should be avoided as much as possible, instead you do not love but do you also consider his future if you are often spoiled. A child who often spoiled will depend entirely to parents and it will be carried over until he grew up. From this moment train your child to do their own daily tasks and praise him for what he had done, the way it proved successful in raising the confidence of a child.
6. Communication active
No matter how busy you are, as parents are concerned about the development of her baby often should you take the time to converse with them. The topics of light around the school, his friends or the news-breaking stories can be to talk about you. Ask them to comment on an issue and ask for their opinion of the events that invite your child to think critically in dealing with everything.
As a parent is a task that is extraordinary, like a potter. Parents have "clay" in his hand he was fit shape he wants. Your child too, they are like clay in your hands. Form them as good as you want and "burn" them in order to become a form that can be useful for you, themselves and others.
